- When we are in transition we are, at least for a time, deprived of knowledge. When our knowledge base is eroded, we feel we no longer have our influence. Control becomes a real issue.
- When we are not in control, we have a tendency to hang onto the familiar. Often we dig in our heels and insist on staying with the old ways. Sometimes we even sabotage our own progress or the progress of others, a phenomenon known as “success sabotage,” or “fear of success,” so we don't have to face the unknown.
- Anxiety increases and it is not really about the present because we know what's happening at the moment. Anxiety invokes the past. We remember what we went through with past transitions. Or it is about the future. We anticipate the worst.
- There is a loss of the familiar. We may be giving up a feeling of expertise, old habits, or comfortable working relationships. Even when the changes are needed and positive, we are losing familiarity and predictability, which leads to a loss of confidence. “We have always done it that way,” means we know how to do it that way and it is no longer a struggle. In a world of tension and inherent difficulty, sameness can be calming and soothing. The fact that a new direction is appealing does not mean we don't long for the old.
- Stress increases. Stress results, not merely from hard work, but from the gap between working hard and not accomplishing what needs to be accomplished. Changes increase that gap.
- Finally, positive change can be just as stressful as negative change because with every gain there is a loss. There are trade-offs, both anticipated and unanticipated.
- Recognize resistance, concern, anxiety, and stress as normal reactions during periods of change. We do not need to add judgment to an already tense situation. If people’s self-esteem is already strained by having to learn a new protocol, for instance, it certainly will not be enhanced by berating them for not accommodating the changes. In other words, accept how people feel. Feelings aren't right or wrong, they just are. If they exist, they're valid.
- While enumerating the gains and positive aspects of the change, also address the losses. What are they giving up? What will they miss? Listen to what they’re telling you about the trade-offs. People don’t have to be right, they just need to be heard.
- Learn what has to be accomplished to accommodate the changes and make a reasonable plan for getting it done. At the same time, recognize that everyone has his or her own pace. Respect personal styles – and to the extent possible – take them into account. When people believe their unique approaches will be tolerated, the pressure reduces and they can often make transitions faster.
- Support one another. Those who are able to make changes more quickly can either be intolerant of those who need more time or they can help them in a non-judgmental way. Helping is rewarding and builds a team atmosphere.
- Acknowledge that a single change affects the entire system. To the extent those ramifications can be anticipated, you’ll be that much farther ahead. However, it’s not possible to predict everything. Expect the unexpected. If the surprises are seen as normal, people will be less likely to be negatively affected by them.
- It is essential to communicate far more often than usual even when there is not much to say. Keep as few secrets as possible. Have more meetings rather than less, in order to check in. Time taken now will, ultimately, save time later.
- And, most important, include employees in the decision-making process whenever possible. The people who do the job every day know how to solve the problems. The more their expertise is tapped, the more invested they’ll be in the outcome.
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